What does the Universe wish to tell you about your current relationship potential?

It is full moon time again; another great time to tune in to the enhanced magical, mystical mood of the often moody Moon! Wish to receive some clarity on what your spirit thinks you could do to align yourself with your highest relationship potential, at this point of time? Mentally ask the universe about this. Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths & connect to your inner space of silence. Then open your eyes, run them over all the 3 piles. 

There are 3 piles here. Pile A is topped by a shiny little protective copper ball. Pile B is topped by a beautiful tiny Shiva lingam crystal. Pile C is topped by a sacred Rudraksha prayer seed. 

Choose the one that first calls out to you. Or use any other way you normally do, to choose a tarot pile. Then go ahead, & scroll down to read your guidance. 

Disclaimer: Do not scroll down the article till you’ve chosen your pile. Tarot can be great for gaining greater insight & clarity on the probable dynamics & soul lessons governing our lives at a given point of time. It is not a 100 percent accurate tool of prediction & should not be used as the only advise for making major life decisions. For a personalized reading, please feel free to connect with me at my e-mail antahsaara@gmail.com, website: www.antahsaara.com

Pile A:  What relationship is it that is so lusciously tempting, that it is almost deviously so? Or perhaps this is about the inauthentic, manipulative, self-denying, co-dependent, overtly pleasing, or overtly self-indulgent person you’ve become or allowed someone else to become within a relationship. ’Desire’ in itself, is the motivator of all action. It can have so many connotations & aspects, but in this instance, I wonder why does the word ‘desire on the 2nd card seem to me, to be strongly linked to the ‘Temptation’ being spoken of on the 1st card! What happens when our deepest desires or needs in relationships also become our addictions? Instead of them working for us, we then start working for them. Instead of them liberating our highest version to come out & shine, they end up entrapping us in a place of ego-based darkness; confining us in a loop of lack, insecurity, fear. Identify such a pattern if any, in your life, in order to truly evolve.

Remember, we end up attracting what most occupies our thoughts, emotions, & thus our energetic vibrations. The wonderful part of this is that you can be part of more & more evolved relationships that are between emotionally mature & high vibrational individuals, committed to their & each others’ continuous growth, healing, & well being. The ugly part is, you can also end up attracting more of the other kind. You are being guided to be mindful & aware of developing the art of using the powerful vibration of your thoughts, desires, & intentions to focus as much as possible only on filling current & developing bonds with true joy, harmony, & wholeness; so that they don’t become ‘bondages’. Detach & free yourself from anything lesser. You shall see how wonderfully doing this can serve you, or perhaps already is!

Pile B: What version of yourself do you think you usually are when you are on the verge of potential co-partnering in love or work, or any other aspect of life? Do you upkeep a worthy opinion of your own needs, skills, boundaries, & self-worth while holding a warm, respectful, & positive space for another & whatever they hope to contribute? Or do get so desperate & anxious for things to ‘work out’ that you start trading in more & more of your own comfort & inner voice, to the point of forgetting to honor your own self? Sometimes you need to remind yourself that no matter how discomforting, there is no option better than to stand your ground – not in a reactionary way or offensive way, but in a self-respecting & dignified way. Peace & stability of something, at the cost of your own authenticity, will always be precarious & ill found. In order to invite truly right & empowering life partnerships, remind yourself of how worthy, joyful, & empathetic you are, & how much, therefore, of the same you deserve in all your relationships. Be rooted in who you are. Do not fear that this will make you lose out on precious things, even if it appears so. On the contrary, it will start guiding you to open up to receiving more & more of that which serves your highest best, including worthy co-partners in your life experiences! Remind yourself of this especially when you are about to settle for something that you know feels less. Perhaps that time is now!…

Pile C:Choose wisely’ what you feed your dominant ‘relationship thoughts’ with, & who you choose to truly include in your inner circle, because this is the fastest & easiest way to determine the pattern of your most of your relationships, in an overriding way. KNOW what your heart values most & focus on seeking & appreciating that in people. Yes, life might have treated you with sour lemons when you might have wanted sweet oranges. But, if you’ve ended up giving more mind space to feeling bitter & angry at having received those lemons than to accepting that refreshing lemonade is perhaps what you might’ve really needed right then, you will find even lesser oranges coming your way! No one is perfect; not even you. If someone truly doesn’t feel conducive to your happiness & peace of mind at this time, distance yourself, if that feels right. But catch your mind while consciously enjoying low vibrational thoughts about them repeatedly. Fill it with thoughts of people that you know have genuine goodwill, or affection for you, & do not allow petty considerations or differences of choices to pull you into a spiral of negative thoughts about those who otherwise are fair or loving towards you. Send gratitude to the universe for them. Meditate on the goodness of all others; on the many good people you’ve encountered in life, no matter how briefly; practice sending good vibes, & forgiveness to everyone, especially in moments when you are feeling peaceful. You will then start harnessing the potential you have of being more & more aligned with more & more people who match that upraised positive vibration!

Shuchi Arora

Author: Shuchi Arora

An empath who loves her Indian roots, but cannot always suffer ‘fitting in’; too authentic to be a conformist, too regular to wish to be a rebel; I am an Usui/Holy Fire III Reiki Master; Animal Reiki practitioner; Certified Aromatherapist; & a Tarot guide. Guided to explore the deeper meaning to my existence, I was always fascinated by the spiritual, mystical, & the metaphysical since mid-teenage, back in India. This also interconnected with my quest of a sense of wellbeing that was more than clinical; that integrates rather than separates the mind, body, & spirit. Through the many beautiful explorations & insights on this journey, Reiki Healing, & Buddhist Vipassana meditation (the powerful mindfulness practice first discovered by the Buddha) both became a part of my life, in 2010, & 2011 respectively. Both, brought me my first worthwhile personal experience of greater centering & deeper grounding; addressing many of my complicated inner battles. Continuously evolving on this lifelong path as a seeker, I know that absolutely everything in our life is determined by this inner state of ‘being ness’. So, I feel guided to use my own spiritual insights in combination with my holistic qualifications, to offer a heart-based; non...